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Help Teenagers Put the Future in God’s Hands   As another school year wraps up, graduating seniors are contemplating the next stage in their lives. Whether kids are heading to college, the military, or full-time employment, this important milestone brings a mixture of excitement and uncertainty. Those feelings aren’t reserved for high school seniors. Whether they’re 13 or 19, most young people question what the future holds for them. “What does God want me to do with my life? Should I go to college? If so, which one? What should I study? What do I want to be? Should I get married? If so, to whom?” Such questions can feel overwhelming, especially when they’re combined with all the other emotions and pressures today’s teenagers face. Teenagers who know that God has their lives all planned out still might not know which particular direction he wants them to take. When big choices loom, Christians can bring their questions to God in prayer and can rely on the loving support of family members and friends. As parents, your presence and guidance during times of decision-making is crucial. Although you can’t make choices for your teenagers, you can help them recognize their talents and interests, research their options, set short- and long-term goals, and then get settled in the next stage of their lives. Use the information in this issue of “Youth2o” to help your teenagers rely on God as they contemplate the future.   Assistance in Aisle Three Share with your teenagers this insightful excerpt from Group’s Live Bible: Yesterday I saw something new—a huge dog right in the middle of Wal-Mart. He was a seeing-eye dog, and he was leading his master through the perilous twists and bends of the personal- hygiene department. The man still had a mind of his own. He had an idea of the general direction to head toward and of the things he wanted. But he needed a good set of eyes to guide him. That’s a pretty clear picture of Jeremiah 29:4-14. God creatively weaves the Israelites through the hidden roadblocks they are oblivious to. He knows where to take them and how to make it safely through. We can fully expect God to do the same for us. God has a plan for each of us and a good set of eyes. God can easily create a path for us, even when we can’t see the way. Try closing your eyes tight and feeling your way around the house in the dark. As you do, imagine the things in your future you feel uncertain about: college, relationships, career path. Then pray. Thank God for his creative plans for you and for his gentle leadership guiding you safely through.   PulsePulsePulsePulsePulsePulsePulse Decisions, decisions. Teenagers seem to face one big choice after another. Check out these stats about teenagers and the future: 44% of teenagers say their top worry is getting good grades, and 32% say their top worry is getting into a good college. (The Parent Institute) When teenagers were asked whether they wanted to follow the career path of their father or mother, 79% responded “neither.” (USA Today) 32% of teenagers expect to be famous someday. (Psychology Today) According to various sources, about 80% of teenagers say they expect to get married someday.   Great Questions ...to Ask Your Kids  Use these discussion starters as you help your teenagers ponder and prepare for the future. 1. When you think about your future, how do you feel? What are you most excited about and most scared about? Explain. 2. How certain are you about what you want to do with your life? Do you think your goals match up with God’s plans? Why or why not? 3. If God already knows how our lives will turn out, why do you think he often lets us struggle with decisions? 4. What one question about your future would you most like God to answer, and why?   GOD AND YOUR FAMILY Pray that: 1. God will guide your kids as they contemplate his will for their lives. 2. Your teenagers will be receptive to your support and guidance as they make big decisions. 3. Your teenagers will make choices that are pleasing to God and that glorify him. 4. God will protect and bless your teenagers as they grow and prepare to leave your “nest.”   VERSE OF THE MONTH “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.” (Jeremiah 29:11-13) God, the architect of the universe, has drafted detailed “life plans” for each of his children. Although the Bible may not tell your kids what classes to take or which job to accept, it assures them that he holds each of their futures. God promises to provide good, hope-filled lives for teenagers—and for you.   What’s Up With Kids At SimplyYouthMinistry.com, author Katie Brazelton writes about helping your teenagers discover and fulfill their life purpose. To read the entire article, visit SimplyYouthMinistry.com and enter “The ABC’s of Parenting on Purpose” in the search box. I am the first to admit that I didn’t know how to go about planning my life for God. My mama never told me how. I wish she had. She did teach me a few things, like “Floss. Don’t let your roots show. And wear clean underwear in case of an accident.” But none of those things helped me figure out what God expected me to be and do. For me, discerning my purpose in life was a grueling process of hit and miss, of pouring my heart out to strangers, and of shedding buckets of tears. I wouldn’t wish my method on anyone. By sharing these 26 lessons with your teenagers, you’ll save them some frustration and legwork. Acknowledge your abilities. Be willing to forgive yourself and others. Concentrate on your character. Develop a servant’s heart. Embrace God’s dream for your life. Face your fears. Give God the glory. Hold onto hope. Invite humility into your life. Just offer your weaknesses to God. Keep going back to your Bible as the ultimate, unchanging truth. Love God and your neighbor. “Motate” toward your life mission. Not about you. Obey. Pray. Quit being so serious. Reach out for healthy relationships. Serve where you are called today. Tell others about the numerous, gracious miracles God has done for you! Understand your uniqueness. Invite Vision. Walk with an accountability partner. EXpect an extraordinary purpose. Yearn to please an audience of one: Jesus Christ. UnZip your zeal.   FilmWatch Movie: X-Men Origins: Wolverine Genre: Action-Adventure, Sci-Fi Thriller Rating: Pending, but almost certainly PG-13 Synopsis: This begins a string of films explaining the backstories of popular superheroes from the X-Men films. James Logan (Hugh Jackman) is Wolverine, a mutant who seeks revenge on his half-brother Victor Creed. Creed, the mutant known as Sabretooth, killed Wolverine’s girlfriend. Wolverine uncovers a larger plot that threatens all mutants. Discussion Questions: Think of a time you’ve wanted to get revenge on someone: How did the situation turn out? Read Romans 12:19-21. Why do you suppose God wants us to leave revenge up to him? Would you rather be judged by God or by other people, and why? Must Christians stand idly by when other people treat us poorly? Explain. What are some helpful ways to get past desires for revenge?   Right Choices, Real Confidence  My good friend Jay used to play this game with my brother called, "How much would it take?" (This is usually how I learned a lot from my brother – he’d do something stupid and I’d learn from it!) It was a simple game. He'd ask him how much money he would need to do something outrageously embarrassing or dangerous. (e.g., "How much would it take for you to moon that big, mean-looking guy with the tattoo on his forehead?")My brother’s responses usually involved huge amounts of money. It's a good thing Jay wasn't a billionaire, or my brother would have been in big trouble. In essence, Jay was asking my brother to place a value on his peace of mind. Was there a number that would justify filling his life with momentary and/or ongoing strife?In this issue’s “Verse of the Month” “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.” (Jeremiah 29:11-13) It basically says, "Don't do it." Don't trade your peace of mind for a life of strife. God has better plans for you. Being broke is better than having a house full of cool stuff if it comes with constant conflict around you or in your head.The back half of Isaiah 32 tells an interesting story. The writer warns the women of Jerusalem that they're living with false prosperity. They're not worried about doing what God wants because everything is going so well. They're fat and happy, rich and partying. They didn’t need someone to ask them "How much would it take?" They were already there.But in about a year, God's judgment fell upon them. The Assyrians invaded and brought an end to the false prosperity. All the money was gone, and all the unrighteous celebrations turned into pity parties. But the writer also reported good news. True good times would return when God's Spirit poured out on them. The people would finally have God's power to live God's way and then that righteousness would bring a genuine prosperity, a real and lasting "quiet confidence."Every Christian's story is similar: "How much would it take?" only leads to never enough on our own. To have real prosperity with God we can’t be willing to settle for the fake prosperity that comes with pleasure, possessions, and status and it wouldn’t hurt to learn from someone else’s mistakes. Think: Does having money or nice stuff always bring some strife to a household? Why does it sometimes bring strife? Is there anything you could personally do to make your household more peaceful? Do: Read Isaiah 32:9-20.